3rd and 4th Wave Feminism is Setting Up Our Young Girls for Failure in Life--with Podcast

Feminism started off as well-intentioned. The first wave succeeded in obtaining women’s suffrage and promoted the notion we are all truly equal. The Baby Boomers moved on to 2nd wave feminism in the 1960s, which started the rejection of the “patriarchal” system.

2nd Wave Feminism brought about the sexual revolution . This taught our girls that it is good to sleep around, and to use contraception and then later abortion to eliminate effects of said behavior.

It continued with government sanctioned wars on marriage and the family. Women were taught to put their kids in day care and go have a career. This raised the latch-key kids of the 70s and 80s, who resented going home to an empty home and when these moms had families, decided to go back to being stay-at-home moms. Amazing how nature wins out in the end.

We also received no-fault divorce, which is terrible for marriage and families as it makes it really easy to simply quit on a marriage. Successful relationships are never easy and always require work to be successful.

The root causes of these problems can be traced back to The Greatest Generation, who survived the Great Depression and won WWII and spoiled their Baby Boomer kids. They changed how they raised their children, which is the foundation for the mess we are in today. That change went from character ethic to personality ethic. I first learned this in the highly recommended book The 7 Habits of Highly Effective People by Stephen R. Covey. He states in this book:

The Character Ethic taught that there are basic principles of effective living, and that people can only experience true success and enduring happiness as they learn and integrate these principles into their basic character. ¹

These principles include “integrity, humility, fidelity, temperance, courage, justice, patience, industry, simplicity, modesty, and the Golden Rule.”²

The Personality Ethic is where success is more of a function of personality, of public image, of attitudes and behaviors, skills and techniques, that lubricate the processes of human interaction. ³

The change from Character Ethic to Personality Ethic changed how we find inner peace and satisfaction in life. Character Ethic searches for peace within ourselves. Personality Ethic searches for peace outside ourselves. True and lasting inner peace can only come from within. No amount of external stimuli, actions, titles, or things can bring such peace. You will see a significant correlation between those who feel success is based on their things: house, cars, clothes, etc and job titles and their disdain for the average working man and woman (there I go again with binary gender stuff).

The Baby Boomers created 2nd Wave Feminism, which is where this started going downhill. We stopped teaching our children that humility is important. The world started to become about how you were viewed in the world. We started “Keeping Up With the Jones’s”.

Women were told to have their careers and a family too.

Women started to refuse to take their husband’s name.

Women started the sexual revolution.

3rd Wave Feminism came along in the 1990s and now our girls were taught they do not need a man to be happy. Human females must have a desire to reproduce or the human race would simply die off. Unfortunately for our gal pals, biology takes over by about 35 years. I first saw this in 2000, after college and I was working in NY City for a big corporation. I saw so many 35 and older females with their sales career and single. It was so clear they were lonely and miserable. They bought into this nonsense.

'Sex and the City' author Candace Bushnell regrets not having kids, says she was 'truly alone'. I wish no ill-will on people, but this article sums up the abject failures of feminism to understand basic biological female needs. “Follow the Science”.

Another excellent example of this is one of my all-time favorite movies: PCU. It stands for Politically Correct University and was released in 1994. I would characterize this as Gen X’s Animal House.

There was a scene towards the end of the movie where a bunch of feminists were protesting The Pit (the protagonists and a quasi-fraternity run by a bunch of authority despising college students). I do not want to spoil the movie. It perfectly shows how far off reality 3rd wave feminists are.

3rd wave feminism has failed women. It has set them up to believe that they do not need a man and a family, only where many find out when it is too late that they were sold a bill of goods. Biology always wins. Follow the Science.

4th wave feminism is the newest failed idea. This one is the worst of the waves, as it now teaches our girls to hate themselves. If you can stomach what these gals spew, read the article Everything you wanted to know about fourth wave feminism—but were afraid to ask. I would need enough alcohol to die of poisoning to finish this.

Have you seen white people kneeling on street corners apologizing for their skin color and begging for forgiveness? Goes on in liberal states.

Feminism now is making violently angry, primarily white females from middle and upper middle class homes. They are being taught there is something wrong with them due to their skin color. They have an advantage solely because of skin color (which also ironically states that non-whites are inferior). Liberals mean well.

They view themselves as victims to the patriarchal society. They go to college and are brainwashed into this leftist, Marxist dribble. Have you seen how under 25 females dress? Some go out in public showing more skin than their grandmothers showed wearing their underwear. They look like one of my fraternity brothers after he passed out in the living room drunk, in which he woke up the next day with drawings all over him. Now we have girls doing the same to their bodies with random tattoos. Added to that are bull nose rings, shaving part of her head, ear lobe expanders, and piercings all over her body and face. Enjoy my one of my favorite memes I found on the Internet.

Take a look at Miley Cyrus's Instagram page as well as a search for photos of her. She is a perfect example of what is wrong with how our girls are acting and dressing and doing the opposite of acting like a lady.

The Personality Ethic, along with unending social media, Hollywood, and the media, have taken this problem to unimaginable levels. Girls are not being taught to be ladies. They present themselves in very poor ways, both in what they do to their bodies, as well as how they dress. They think the way to satisfaction in life is to dress like a cheap hooker and look like they fell into a bucket of bolts and a number stuck. Sorry folks, I am still learning how to speak my mind. It has been a tough education.

On the flip side of this is Jessica Rey, actress and former Power Ranger. The video is well worth the time invested in watching it. She discusses dressing modestly and how females are treated better when they do. This hit me like a ton of bricks when I was sitting at the community pool last summer and saw a group of pre-teen girls in bikinis. Sadly, most parents are not even aware of all this.

Our girls have been taught for years that the opposite of what they need to be successful in life. They are being sexualized in elementary school. They are being exposed to graphic sex education before they hit puberty. They are being taught that to be satisfied in life you have to use sex. Sex is the result of a good relationship, not a creator of it.

Billie Eilish is hugely popular with younger generations. She was watching pornography at 11 years old and at 19 it has damaged her dating life. Well, no kidding. Another example of parents not protecting their child from extremely harmful things. We are setting kids up for failure by not protecting them. Remember this the next time the Republican Party says social issues do not matter.

Breitbart reported that the majority of 30 year old females are childless in England. This is unbelievably dangerous to a population. Females are not getting married and not having kids until later in life.

In addition our children are being indoctrinated in this “transgender” ideology, which the next phase of this destruction. I will cover this separately.

Feminism for decades has given our girls the wrong outlook on life and set them up to fail in relationships. Females are biologically made to be mothers. This does not mean this is their only purpose in life. We would be extinct if we did not have offspring. They are not being taught humility and to serve others, which are two absolute necessities in successful relationships. The best way to get a deranged feminist to lose her mind is to talk about how women need to be obedient to their men. I have first hand case studies on how effective this is.

My Christian women understand what this means. The radical, emotional feminists think it is another piece of the oppressiveness of the patriarchy. They hear this as be a silent, obedient slave to your man. It means something quite different.

It actually means be obedient to the relationship and serve each other. It is a position of strength and humility. I was Mr. Mom for a few years. It does not fit me at all. I made it work. Successful relationships require give and take and require at times to humbly serve others. These ideas are the key to success.

We the people will end this nonsense. We have a choice.

We can say no more sexualizing our children. Make Modesty Cool Again.

We can say no more graphic sex education for grade school children.

We can start teaching our girls to be ladies again.

We can start teaching our boys to be men again.

Sexy is not twerking on stage with see-through clothes. Modesty is sexy. Some times it is good to leave a lot to the imagination.

Sleeping around does not bring fulfillment. Males will not buy the cow if they get the milk for free.

We fix the problem in the home and then pay attention to what our kids watch on television and in movies, what they see online, and what they are exposed to at school.

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Here is a link to the article from the Daily Mail UK At 53, I'd been celibate for a decade and thought I'd never have sex again. Then a friend let me in on a secret all the posh mums are talking about...

1. Stephen R. Covey The 7 Habits of Highly Effective People. Page 18.

2. Stephen R. Covey The 7 Habits of Highly Effective People. Page 18.

3. Stephen R. Covey The 7 Habits of Highly Effective People. Page 19.

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